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Sims continuously reacting to a non-existent pet gift
All the adult sims I'm my household keep having their queues filled up by a react to pet gift interaction. I cannot find a pet gift anywhere on the lot, and all the sims cancel the interaction to wav...
Turns out there was a pet gift in an unreachable position. Ive moved it to an open area and had a sim open it and problem is solved. Still not sure why all the sims were obsessively reacting to it, that might just be part of the game.
