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Mars_24232221
Seasoned Newcomer
7 months ago

The game won't let my sims marry?

Hello! I am doing the not so berry challenge and I am trying to finish the "leave someone at the alter" task. However for somereason I can't start the wedding? When I click on the arch both the "plan wedding event" and "get married to" options are grayed out and the reason is that my engaged partner isn't on lot. apparently this is a common problem  as I've seen other people say the same thing. I've tried the fixes that people recomended but nothing is changing the options. Normally I would just bypass this and have them elope but seeing as I need to leave someone at the alter for the challenge I can't really skip over this one. 

Any advice? 

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  • K-bobster's avatar
    K-bobster
    Rising Hotshot
    7 months ago

    me, too! I'm so sad. I built this cool crystal wedding venue a year ago, but it was mostly for spellcaster sims and never had any of them get engaged until now. But now I can't even use the venue. We just have to keep being vocal and they will have to fix many of the bugs the newest update created.

  • I don't think there's a bug report on this issue yet. It would probably be a good idea to start one. 

  • Hey there! The same thing happened to me and I was looking for answers but the best way I could do it was how they added the new 'Relationship' tap. It has 'Get married' in there and that finally pulled the wedding through for me! 

  • I experienced this, too. My sims could "Fantasize About Wedding" but nothing else, even if I had them both in front of it. I could still click on the partner sim to get married, and that fulfilled the needs of the wedding event. (I don't have Wedding Stories.)