I used
this page when I created mine and her 'deceased' hubby (will kill him off ingame when I place them later). I plan on introducing them to my game play later and the traits I gave her are catlover, loner, romantic and with the friend of the animals aspiration. Her hubby,
Erik Darling, has the doglover, romantic and childish traits along with the same aspiration as Agnes. I gave them some of the traits they have in Sims 3 and added the new C&D ones. Together they reside in my library along with 2 dogs & 2 cats.