Of the 3 you listed, I'd go with Jungle Adventures. There are 2 new aspirations, new CAS, new collectables, a new world to travel to, new foods to discover as well as blessings and curses when searching for relics, some of which can really add to (or take away from) your game play. Imagine being cursed in a way that prevents your sim from talking...or maybe being blessed (cursed?) with immortality!
Laundry Stuff. It's a pain. There are odd moodlets from clean clothes like a fine moodlet (?) or a playful moodlet that overpower any other moodlets. I added roses as a laundry additive and would have thought there'd be a romantic moodlet. Go figure. If you don't buy a washing machine, you constantly get the whim to buy one as well as a wash tub. Now, the toddlers can play in the wash tub and if you have Parenting, then it drops their responsibility.
Toddler Stuff. Meh. More Cas. Don't care for the beds but the outdoor gym type stuff is nice even if the toddlers go to it over anything else.