Are you mainly a Realistic player, Fantasy Player, or both???

It depends. Most of my households (unless I'm specifically making single sims) start with their lives already in full swing with money, houses, careers, spouses, children, etc. But when the children grow up, that's when we start grinding to reach the top.

Now if we're talking like...fantasy, then yeah. I tend to lean more towards the supernatural/abnormal side with my sims. Vampires, aliens, sorcerers (thanks to Triplis' mod, which has come a LONG way); my games are full of 'em.