BUGS BUGS BUGS

I'm having issues again with the game where if I want order twice the waiters stand there gawking into outer space, also time keeps going faster than the sims are moving. My sim is failing at being an actress, because she's not able to go to the auditions mostly from the time going to fast than the sim is able to react. Alien babies won't stop crying too! I feed them, give them attention and change their diapers. WON'T STOP CRYING.