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ShellSh0ck
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7 years ago

Can we fine tune the eating/seating behavior, please?

My sims will do just about anything to avoid eating at the dining room table I've placed so conveniently near the food preparation area. Bad enough that they would walk halfway across the house to go sit on a bed to eat near a kid trying to do their homework. But now when there's no one else in any other room of the house they can go take their plate to awkwardly bother, they just plop down on the kitchen floor right by the fridge.

I know the dining chairs work fine, because if I manually direct the sims to sit in them while eating, they most of the time do, and then later sims will come join them at the table if there's already someone seated there. But in large households with busy schedules this is maddening to micromanage; Sims are late to work and school because they just had to walk halfway across the house to eat near a cat that was sitting on the couch rather than just suck it up and eat at the actual eating table alone.

I could get it if sims with the Outgoing trait were this codependent about being unable to digest food without the presence of another person or animal nearby, but most humans do not do this. When I make myself something to eat, I don't go wander through the house until I find another person and then park next to them holding my plate awkwardly while I get crumbs on their bedsheets. I sit down at the table like a civilized human. Even if the couch in the next room is slightly more comfortable. BEDS AND COUCHES ARE NOT FOR EATING ON.

I would move that sims should ALWAYS default to finding the nearest dining chair/table when eating/drinking, and if people WANT them to eat somewhere weird, THAT is when they should have to manually direct them.

But it's apparently been like this since launch, so I don't have a lot of hope anyone will listen... /shrug Just venting, mostly, I guess :)

44 Replies

  • "AndyDaniel;c-16996930" wrote:
    "SimFan298;c-16996479" wrote:
    I just don't like how they get up to hug each other when I make them talk during dinner, especially when it's a family with kids and all. I swear, this problem only started happening to me recently and I wish it would STOP.


    There is a mod called No Standing Up to Greet by Yakfarm that works for this. Instead of the routine where they stand up, hide the food, hug, put the food down, then sit, the sims simply wave to each other while staying seated. It's great. Unfortunately, the new "salute" greeting in StrangerVille breaks it, so if you have any military sims they will often go through the whole routine and salute instead of hugging. I'm not sure how to let Yakfarm know that this needs to be updated.


    @AndyDaniel: You can use this mod instead: http://modthesims.info/d/611113/sims-pre-greeting-kiss-hug-video-test-nuker-circumventor.html
    It nukes those permanent greetings completely and is compatible with Stranger Ville.

    I have myself made an eatatdiningtable mod a while ago, if anyone wants to give it a try: https://www.deichschafblog.de/s4/mods-rund-um-mahlzeiten/

    There also is a fastercooking mod on the very same site. It works best with food that doesn't involve using the oven. I'm still working on making the baking process faster, also.

    There's also a thirsttweak mod here that keeps Sims from constantly grabbing a drink:
    https://www.deichschafblog.de/s4/sonstige-mods/

    I also use the less musical chairs mod for obvious reasons.

    I still fully agree that it is EA who should fix these issues.
  • my sim just cook a family meal right now and she decided to eat sitting near the side entrance door of the family house
  • See I have sims make all the foods for the week, it's a lot of grinding, I store in the fridge, unless Sim have a FreshChef trait.
    I lay everything out on the table "Set the table" and place wine glasses.have sims grab servings, and then chose their drink of where i want them to sit. it's not bad when everything is in place.
  • I really need something to fix this I can't stand that my sims eat everywhere else but not on the dining table not even putting the table with plates work. My sim prefer to eat sit on the piano than on the table. I just want all my sims to eat like family -.- its so frustrating. I also can't feed my toddlers on the high chair anymore because they were always picking the toddler and putting down then picking up and putting on the chair and doing like a cycle of nightmare. So I deleted the high chair and all the other chairs in my lot for my sims to eat in the table but still doesn't work they prefer to eat standing now. oh god I'm so frustrated.

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