Help! I am having the same problem one month later. Being a family Simmer, this problem is making my game unplayable. I had Nancy and Geoffrey get divorced after Geoffrey found out Nancy was cheating on him for Richard Pennybags. Nancy realized her mistake and started flirting with her husband once again whereby getting to the point that they decided to remarry. It's registering that Geoffrey is under Nancy's employ and that simply is not so. They were able to get engaged (before I installed the expansion containing the butler), thankfully. Now, the option sticks if I select Geoffrey, but after a few seconds the "Get Married" icon disappears. I play a clean game - no mods. I am truly hoping EA fixes this problem soon...I want my Sims to get married!