True. My loner, bookworm spell caster sim makes his way through the world tho… now that I think about it I don’t really see him out and about in the worlds, it’s always his father, mother, or brother who are putting themselves out there.
He is shy, sort of awkward, but he will go out if he has too, but even he has high charisma. He has several close best friends outside of his family.
Otherwise he is the sort to be alone with his books.
It is strange tho, now I’m suddenly wondering it would be cool if, sims depended on other skills to befriend others.
Build Mutual interests.
I have a mod where sims can socialize through their traits and skills, like evil sims can talk evil socials, good sims can talk more good socials, gardeners can talk all about gardening tips and tricks. I wish there were more magic socials. Like spellcasters can discuss Magic, but I wish they could also talk to humans and vampires about magic, and humans can ask a known spellcaster about magic.