Close-Knit and People Person Lifestyles: Let's Talk

I don't think family should count even if they up the number. I feel like people person should be something that's deliberately pursued, and counting family members feels like cheating it because it gives a notable disadvantage to those that don't do family play. Not counting family and keeping the number around established levels (Friend of the World's, for instance) is the only way I can think of that will make it fair to both kinds of players.