Do you ever just accidentally have too many kids?

Yes, definitely. The most recent just happened in the last few days. I've been experimenting with Tiny Living homes and was only planning one or two children. Wife was expecting when hubby got abducted. She had one and he had twins. Three toddlers, three adults (husband, his wife, his sister) all in a 3 Tier tiny house was hectic and it is now wall to wall Murphy beds on the upper two tiers. No room left for what I was planning.