Do you like UTOPIA HAPPY GAME or REALISTIC RANDOM game?

Well I like to option to have all of them though I never look for realism in a game, it's a break from reality like in a game where one can die no one wants to pay anything for a game where one mistake or one technically overpowered enemy means you can no longer play the game again. Though copying things that are realistic a little bit is fine. I'm a storyteller player so I always want the good, bad, and the ugly sims that die from illnesses, though with an option to save them for story telling, like I like the death by poison but I also like that I can pick and choose how it goes, as for disturbing that's more in the eye of the beholder. Some things that bother others, while I'd never tease them for it, don't get to me at all but I play a few different games enjoy a few different types of movies and books so I've been more exposed.