Feeling hurt by someone nearby...
Does anyone know what exactly triggers this? My toddler gets this moodlet almost constantly...mostly during friendly conversation, but sometimes even when she is idle it pops up unwarranted. She appar...
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"invisiblgirl;c-17734470" wrote:"justdancerebecca;c-17732738" wrote:"Nikkih;c-17731511" wrote:"justdancerebecca;c-17731464" wrote:"Nikkih;c-17731318" wrote:
I would say although I can understand why your bit annoyed, it is rather realistic, toddlers in real life get upset of simplistic things, they are babies, they dont understand emotions yet, that gets taught to us through time how to control them, learn how too know reason aswell, toddlers take tantrums when things dont go their way or they cry if they get told not to do something, its realistic game play that most of us asked for, chaos is realism I'm sorry ? and realism is also not having the ability to control everything
I understand, I've worked with preschool/kindergarten children years back, and I get how reason and logic have to be developed and at the time are not all there, believe me, and thank you for the explanation honestly. It's just...what bothers me about it is that it lasted her entire toddlerhood without waning a bit, and it got to the point where it made her own life completely dysfunctional and hindered (well, pretty much stopped) her ability to gain skills as a toddler, and generally interact with the world. I have yet to meet a kindergartener not being able to function in class actively and are constantly crying over being disciplined for spilling paint on the floor when they were 2, not to mention I still have no idea what mom could have done to trigger this.
The whole toddlerhood ?, well if that's the case the developers need too atleast shorten down the negative emotions for toddlers a bit, that is a bit much if it lasts that long, maybe only a few hours in game time of the toddler feeling hurt, or maybe when after an adult sim told the toddler off for making a mess for example , giving them a cuddle or playing with toys with them gets rid of that sentiment and replaced with something nice @QueenMercy @justdancerebecca
Yes, literally the entire time. :( It started on her first day and it finally lapsed a few hours after aging up into a child. It was unbelievable. She allowed mom to try friendly interactions that would go towards lowering the hurt sentiment and I spent hours trying before that, but it didn't budge. Maybe a mod glitch unless other people are experiencing it to the severity I am
It's not a mod. I do not have mods in my game. And I've had the same experience - it doesn't get drained by interactions (if anything, trying to comfort the toddler actually causes a negative interaction). I wouldn't mind if it had some obvious cause or explanation, but there is nothing - just hurt feelings. Also, it will drain out, but as soon as the mother interacts with the toddler again (flash cards, dancing, whatever), it's back. If it's about wanting to 'do things myself' for the independent type, it's way overtuned. And the sentiment should explain that.
Ahhhh...that makes better sense, thank you. I'm assuming that's the reason why she never got the hurt sentiment for her dad as well, considering he pretty much did none of those things and let her be (until he disciplined her strictly, I guess). I'll have to watch out for that, and yeah I wish the buff could have said "from _____ trait" or something like that
