Feeling hurt by someone nearby...

I would say although I can understand why your bit annoyed, it is rather realistic, toddlers in real life get upset of simplistic things, they are babies, they dont understand emotions yet, that gets taught to us through time how to control them, learn how too know reason aswell, toddlers take tantrums when things dont go their way or they cry if they get told not to do something, its realistic game play that most of us asked for, chaos is realism I'm sorry ? and realism is also not having the ability to control everything

"Nikkih;c-17731318" wrote:
I would say although I can understand why your bit annoyed, it is rather realistic, toddlers in real life get upset of simplistic things, they are babies, they dont understand emotions yet, that gets taught to us through time how to control them, learn how too know reason aswell, toddlers take tantrums when things dont go their way or they cry if they get told not to do something, its realistic game play that most of us asked for, chaos is realism I'm sorry ? and realism is also not having the ability to control everything

I understand, I've worked with preschool/kindergarten children years back, and I get how reason and logic have to be developed and at the time are not all there, believe me, and thank you for the explanation honestly. It's just...what bothers me about it is that it lasted her entire toddlerhood without waning a bit, and it got to the point where it made her own life completely dysfunctional and hindered (well, pretty much stopped) her ability to gain skills as a toddler, and generally interact with the world. I have yet to meet a kindergartener not being able to function in class actively and are constantly crying over being disciplined for spilling paint on the floor when they were 2, not to mention I still have no idea what mom could have done to trigger this.

"Nikkih;c-17731318" wrote:
I would say although I can understand why your bit annoyed, it is rather realistic, toddlers in real life get upset of simplistic things, they are babies, they dont understand emotions yet, that gets taught to us through time how to control them, learn how too know reason aswell, toddlers take tantrums when things dont go their way or they cry if they get told not to do something, its realistic game play that most of us asked for, chaos is realism I'm sorry ? and realism is also not having the ability to control everything

This isn’t what the original poster is talking about. There’s a huge difference between a toddler throwing one tantrum because they didn’t want a bath or something and having them actively resent a parent because they got upset about potty training or something once.

I know people weren’t happy that sims would get over cheating after the moodlet ended, but I really think it makes sense for toddlers to be that fickle. Sentiments make sense for older sims, but I think toddlers should be able to get over the deep upset of too many flash cards within the span of one angry moodlet, which is a few hours.

"justdancerebecca;c-17731464" wrote:

"Nikkih;c-17731318" wrote:
I would say although I can understand why your bit annoyed, it is rather realistic, toddlers in real life get upset of simplistic things, they are babies, they dont understand emotions yet, that gets taught to us through time how to control them, learn how too know reason aswell, toddlers take tantrums when things dont go their way or they cry if they get told not to do something, its realistic game play that most of us asked for, chaos is realism I'm sorry ? and realism is also not having the ability to control everything

I understand, I've worked with preschool/kindergarten children years back, and I get how reason and logic have to be developed and at the time are not all there, believe me, and thank you for the explanation honestly. It's just...what bothers me about it is that it lasted her entire toddlerhood without waning a bit, and it got to the point where it made her own life completely dysfunctional and hindered (well, pretty much stopped) her ability to gain skills as a toddler, and generally interact with the world. I have yet to meet a kindergartener not being able to function in class actively and are constantly crying over being disciplined for spilling paint on the floor when they were 2, not to mention I still have no idea what mom could have done to trigger this.

The whole toddlerhood ?, well if that's the case the developers need too atleast shorten down the negative emotions for toddlers a bit, that is a bit much if it lasts that long, maybe only a few hours in game time of the toddler feeling hurt, or maybe when after an adult sim told the toddler off for making a mess for example , giving them a cuddle or playing with toys with them gets rid of that sentiment and replaced with something nice @QueenMercy @justdancerebecca

Yeah, giving toddlers the same sentiments as older sims feels like a mistake. They generally don’t share the same moodlets, so they should have had different sentiments. The sentiments about them should’ve been different too, I’d feel different about a toddler dumping paint on the ground than I would about an elementary school child.

"CelSims;c-17731860" wrote:

"Nikkih;c-17731318" wrote:
I would say although I can understand why your bit annoyed, it is rather realistic, toddlers in real life get upset of simplistic things, they are babies, they dont understand emotions yet, that gets taught to us through time how to control them, learn how too know reason aswell, toddlers take tantrums when things dont go their way or they cry if they get told not to do something, its realistic game play that most of us asked for, chaos is realism I'm sorry ? and realism is also not having the ability to control everything

Sorry but I don't find toddlers being upset for a week over anything realistic, let alone for something small like not wanting a bath or being told it's time for bed. Or maybe mine were just angels? A quick distraction and all good from my experience.

On my other comment , I commented if it last that long then it is a bit much, What I meant on my first comment that toddlers have unstable emotions, they cant handle negative emotions that well or understand reason that well, that gets taught too us, its realistic for toddlers too feel hurt for no reason ie a parent telling them not to do something, if things dont go their way, I agree with you that having feeling hurt for that long isnt realistic for a toddler, i did also say that after a cuddle and playing with them should change negative emotions quickly @CelSims

My sims kids have been getting the same thing. However, I noticed that there is a meter on that sentiment and all the others that doing positive actions and friendly or funny actions from the apposing sim that caused it can take the meter down and it will fade and add a new sentiment. That meter appears in a thought bubble during the negative actions as a red circle.
Adult sims get the same feeling hurt by someone near by too.

"BMSO;c-17732139" wrote:
My sims kids have been getting the same thing. However, I noticed that there is a meter on that sentiment and all the others that doing positive actions and friendly or funny actions from the apposing sim that caused it can take the meter down and it will fade and add a new sentiment. That meter appears in a thought bubble during the negative actions as a red circle.
Adult sims get the same feeling hurt by someone near by too.

I've been able to drain the meter as you've suggested with all other sims with the hurt sentiment, but I've tried everything that would normally help with her as a toddler and nothing changed, the hurt still stayed full. Not time, space, or positive interactions affected it at all. It did, however, drain normally once she aged up to a child. I'm not sure why

Doesn’t UI Cheats have a way to delete those? Maybe if you get another especially resentful toddler you can just get rid of any unreasonable sentiments.

"justdancerebecca;c-17732736" wrote:

"BMSO;c-17732139" wrote:
My sims kids have been getting the same thing. However, I noticed that there is a meter on that sentiment and all the others that doing positive actions and friendly or funny actions from the apposing sim that caused it can take the meter down and it will fade and add a new sentiment. That meter appears in a thought bubble during the negative actions as a red circle.
Adult sims get the same feeling hurt by someone near by too.

I've been able to drain the meter as you've suggested with all other sims with the hurt sentiment, but I've tried everything that would normally help with her as a toddler and nothing changed, the hurt still stayed full. Not time, space, or positive interactions affected it at all. It did, however, drain normally once she aged up to a child. I'm not sure why

Usually they go away after awhile on their own after they have been drained. My guess is there is a bug or there could be a mod interfering with them.

"QueenMercy;c-17732956" wrote:
Doesn’t UI Cheats have a way to delete those? Maybe if you get another especially resentful toddler you can just get rid of any unreasonable sentiments.

Your supposed to be able to click the buff to make it disappear.