Have these "fears of a dead end job" been effecting anyone else a little more lately?

I had the fear of dead end job pop up as well. I forgot to turn off wants and fears when I started my game (after turning it off dozens of times already) my sim is currently a sim in black, at the top of the military career with 2 additional pay raises. In my mind she is very happy where she is in her professional career so I quit without saving.