I get far to attached to my pixelated people to let anything happen to them, while I do enjoy reading others peoples stories. Natural death or disasters occurs very infrequently in my game.
My currant game is to be played on normal life span, so I will be be meeting the reaper much sooner than normal for my games.
Kissing rejection while I recall it well from Sims 2 or 3, have only seen it once during 4 and it was not even an active sim. Don lothario rejected a townie when she tried to kiss him at the romance festival.
The nanny's where unreliable in 2, came close a few times when nanny failed to show. Don and Dina you must have had a maid, as there housekeeping skills where appalling.