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"Writin_Reg;c-17000426" wrote:
Never. You do not offer a place to mark my answer, so I am writing it. LOL.
I generally wait until Sims have been in a long relationship through most of their YA age - and then they might marry and have 1-2 kids. So my sims know each other well, and have spent a lot of time together building their careers and skills, and bond deeply, then they eventually get married. I played Sims 3 the same way, and also the marriages always lasted.
It probably helps that I never give Sims flirty traits or make romance Sims - so my Sims are not really tempted by other sims outside my couples romance. I don't know - I just know it works for me.
That’s why I put “or less”, but whatever..- Never.
- This is all very interesting, thanks for all of the replies. I think the reason why I’m not in the majority is because I give my sims all kinds of personalities they could have, because I like playing around with every trait, aspiration, career, etc. It’s always been like that for me, so that means sometimes I have to deal with scandalous simmies who get married and then are tempted by others- (like how Don Lothario tempts sims)- so I end up with more failed marriages. I also make a story out of my sims, and I really love how all the pieces of a sims life fits together in the end. This means I love storylines that aren’t the usual- (childhood, career, marriage, children, death) and if divorce is a part of a story, it happens in my games :D
- Karababy526 years agoLegendCan't vote because there's no option for 'never'. When my Sims marry, it's for life. There are too many failed marriages in the real world, I choose to not let that happen in my simulated world. I know that's not 'realistic' but my Sims don't get married at all unless they are already best friends in love and totally committed to each other. Just like my own marriage. <3
"Mindsimscreate;c-17000442" wrote:
This is all very interesting, thanks for all of the replies. I think the reason why I’m not in the majority is because I give my sims all kinds of personalities they could have, because I like playing around with every trait, aspiration, career, etc. It’s always been like that for me, so that means sometimes I have to deal with scandalous simmies who get married and then are tempted by others- (like how Don Lothario tempts sims)- so I end up with more failed marriages. I also make a story out of my sims, and I really love how all the pieces of a sims life fits together in the end. This means I love storylines that aren’t the usual- (childhood, career, marriage, children, death) and if divorce is a part of a story, it happens in my games :D
I played like you back in Sims 1 and 2 as the emotional system in the game - especially in Sims 2 was rather amazing so I used every trait possible - and loved the sliders. I remember well how Cassandra reacted even years after Don had left her at the alter, even after she was happily married and had kids with someone else - she was still furious at him. It never ceased to crack me up when she would remember and relive the event (loved the memory system in 2) and go kick his trash can over. If he dared step outside, she'd slap him silly, then stomp off home. Always left me laughing. But not all simmers liked all that and complained - so when Sims 3 came out the memory and the reaction system were pretty dead - so I adapted by changing the way I played as it was not fun to play that way any more - like it had been. I cut out a number of traits and instead of focusing on the whole neighborhoods I focused on just a few Sims households and just good relationships.
Sims 4 took memory and emotion completely away - it was dull and void, with next to no relationships with their neighbors at all outside of over the top silly smiles - even when they were angry - as they have no memory on why they were angry. For the first two years I went back to playing between Sims 2 and Sims 3 - but toddlers brought me back and Vampires made me stay. I finally found a Sims 4 I could play - but there is no natural way the game actually breaks up the Sims as even when they cheat the other Sims keeps smiling. They may cry a bit but there is nothing natural about how they should be feeling - so it annoyed me even more than the lessening of reactions in the Sims 3. To stop the annoyance more than anything - I stop giving traits like flirty or making romance Sims. Stopped having early marriages, so my Sims were more ready for a one on one real relationship. At least in my mind they were - and the marriages in Sims 4 last - never break up with me doing nothing else at all - nothing special anyway.- FriendlySimmers6 years agoSeasoned Acenever since i keep my sims single and unmarried
- I like to make a big deal about going through the worlds and choosing a perfect partner for my sim, then planning their future for them before they've even met. That tends to make me really attached to my sims' spouses and their relationships, and it hurts me to break them up. I think I divorced a couple once in 7 generations of my legacy save, but it broke my heart. Usually if I want to throw some drama in there I kill one of the spouses, because for some reason I'd rather that happen than they get divorced. Plus divorce makes it hard to figure out what to do with the kids :/
I think breakups might be something I'll play with in the future, but as of now I can't bear it :,( - AfterMidnight136 years agoSeasoned NewcomerI can’t remember the last time sims of mine divorced. I tend to play legacy style so the partner I choose for my sim is almost always for life. I have broken up marriages of other sims, however. My sims generally aren’t homewreckers, but occasionally a married sim will come along with genetics that are too good to ignore.
- Almost never. But I need to add that my sims take their time before exchanging vows. I have many sims living in committed relationships without officially marrying and those relationships can fail. Sometimes the same relationship can fail several times in a row, lol.
- mcrudd6 years agoLegendNever <3
I guess divorce is so common in real life these days that its not even an option in a simulated game that marriage actually can last forever.
My sims are either single or happily married. :)