Addendum: I just added her to her family household via invite by her husband or now the former husband because apparently the wedding vows don't survive past the afterlife, and I realized that her now former husband is ticked off with her, because she flirted so hard with one of the guests at the potluck, that the romance bar opened up between them two, and Alon views that as her having been unfaithful and cheated on him with this guy. I can't even. She even has the Loyal trait! The Sims are better than any soap any day!
