How to have a child get 3 positive character value traits?

"Jeansoo;d-979965" wrote:
For my kids, responsibility and manners are maxed. But it's not easy to increase emotional control and Empathy. I couldn't tell them eating dirt is fun. Go ahead..like this. Also I always do to my kid in real life as well. Is there any tip for increasing these 2 with manner and responsibility? Thanks.