Yeah I'm not offended by it, so I hope it isn't removed. Honestly the Sims 4 is ultra safe as it is, even Gurus recognize it now. In fact, I hope the Sims 4 brings back the goose interaction. I mean we rule and yeah if you abuse any interaction by spamming it a million of course you are creating an abusive story in your game. Don't look at any of my saves, because if a "shove" is considered abuse, I hate for you to see what I put my Sims into. For people who think the Sims 4 isn't uncanny valley but more cartoon, they sure are getting their Sims with the people around them if they can't tell the difference between a game or real life anymore. I can tell you from experience that shove is far off from being in an abusive situation.
My suggestion would be to remove all humanity from your Sims by taking away their free will so they can all be your happy little robots that will do no harm that you have full control over and don't use mean or mischief interactions. Also a teen game like the Sims 4 is too mature for your liking, might be safer to try out an E for everyone game like Animal Crossing. Animal Crossing Pocket camp just came out on mobile devices. Stardew Valley or MySims might be a safe game to play too with their lower ESRB rating system. If violence angers you and offends you staying away from anything teen rated and above would be recommended.
Sims 4 teen rating description:
Crude Humor, Sexual Themes, Violence
MySims E for everyone rating description:
Comic Mischief, Mild Cartoon Violence
Animal Crossing E for everyone rating description:
Comic Mischief
So I guess if you want a game with no violence, Animal Crossing is a good option.
Also I'm sure the movie in your avatar is a lot more violent than a Sims shove anyways. ;) Allegiant books and movies have a lot more violent things happen in the story than shoving.
