Is there any way to pick order of option in interaction menu?

I use the Friendly menu a lot, but often the options show up in an order in which nothing I want to use shows up first. I don't want, and I never actually ask for, hand or foot massage or someone with who to cloud gaze. Most of the Sims I play are unemployed so I really don't want to ask about career. I just want to pick some of the options I actually use to show up first. Is there any chance of that? It seems like I always either have to pick an option I don't really want or use the same one over and over again or scroll through several menus of More Options if I actually want to bother using one I want to use more. It would be nice to pick some that always show up in the first or second menus. And it would be nice if the options to collect DNA or those sort of things went further back once successful or were somewhere different altogether.