1. Not all gay men is a feminine or effeminated, some are just like any other traditional masculine men doing a traditional male role cant quite put how a masculine is defined but I just knew, it's not the usual toxic masculinity as that only says about men insecurity of their masculinity.
2. I always play as male character so I usually just play the way i want to, i dont think there is an activity in sims 4 that screams very "masculine" aside from doing woodworking bench.
3. Career is random, but never the feminine career like hair stylist etc.
4. My sims wear a masculine male clothing, strictly.
5: Depends on the sims, but beard is almost always.
