It's very seldom that I ever get the whim for my sim to marry another. Sometimes I'll get one where they want to be boyfriend/girlfriend. Also, my sims never have the whim to try for baby, even if they're family oriented. I've only seen that one maybe once. It's kind of frustrating. I can remember in TS3 if I had a family oriented sim, they'd want to have another baby just as soon as their current one aged up to a toddler. I'm rambling now. I don't have a list for you, sorry! But I'm not too keen on the whims in this game as I feel a lot of times they don't really apply to their traits (in my game's case anyway). Hope this helps some.