Name one thing you disliked in Sims 3 and then name one thing you didn't like in Sims 4

TS3: I hate that it can actually kill your graphics card without putting a 50 fps limiter/v sync on (like wtf?)

TS4: I hate that the game doesn't have any type of memory system, feels like nothing that happens in-game is important to my sims because they forget within days. (example: sims parent dies and after 3 days they don't feel sad anymore let alone remember it?)