This is the screen I meant. It varies by event and activity, of course. Night on the Town has already passed in my game but I made a test event so I could show something similar.
https://64.media.tumblr.com/4cfed65900bf9161122ad34b4f4be6da/1b9ca05fc3d488c7-0c/s400x600/c6faf728a93b9030a08b1ecd93ff79cf4a611a64.jpg
Strangely. my vampires don't ignore the Grand Meal tradition due to their vampirism. Lamia ignores it due to her life stage, while mum Carmilla doesn't have it greyed out even though human food makes her sick. Lamia's grandpa, Vlad (not canon Vlad, this is a guy of my creation), ignores it because he has the mean trait. Lamia's toddler brother Draugr loves the same tradition because he has the clingy trait - I am not sure of the logic there!