Plants are still reverting. :(

I started playing a game again and am getting more and more frustrated so not enjoying it like I normally do. My sims are popping out of bed in the middle of the night, not fully rested, and landing next to the bed. They also popped out of their chairs while eating before finishing meals and the toddler popped out of the high chair. Actions set in the queue disappear frequently. Seems worse today than the other day. And they still constantly get water to drink. I don't use any mods or cc. I am going to try to repair it, again, and clear cache, again and hope it works. I honestly cannot play this game when it is behaving this badly. :(