I use the second mod, I do love my elfy sims. Yes, in that one you have to go into detail mode and pull the ears out to make them pointy and I have had offspring inherit them. I noticed they don't actually show up as modded in the gallery. I downloaded an elf household the other day and it had no little modded icon by the side, but that was fine because I use the mod anyway. I just didn't know it doesn't detect it as modded in the gallery.