Question About Faster Eating

I don't know how I feel about this. On the one hand, my sims almost never sit down to eat and making them eat faster is the answer to that problem. But I would prefer for them to eat sitting down and at a medium pace so they can chat, but not be late for work or school.

I think what is like is for sims to eat quickly for breakfast and lunch, but for dinner when they're most likely going to be eating as a family, have them eat slow and socialize. Sit even after they finish eating. How do you get them to just sit?