"ListentoToppDogg;c-17192040" wrote:
I feel like I see more threads about negativity than actual negative comments. Maybe it's just me though.
Negativity can be helpful in a constructive manner to create a positive, but negativity for the sake of it almost always attracts more of the same and never goes anywhere. It can be difficult to tell them apart at times and in this case it is the latter as someone is questioning why others are always negative which could be seen in any number of negative ways from others and respond in kind.
Yesterday on that thread about posting updates on what your sims are doing today? i used negativity to find a positive effect as an example, because there was a great deal to learn and understand from others and view points, and in learning all about that i gained a better appreciation for other forum members in a good manner. Sometimes there is no other way but to ask a question in such a manner, even if it is uncomfortable asking.
It could happen to any of us at any time, it is about telling apart which is which.
