Hi, I googled everywhere how to fix the friendship with Don. I left her inactive for a quite long time and she was full of red bar with Don. She doesn't have any pink bar with him. Her traits are Genius, Outgoing and Neat. She doesn't have any bad traits but I have no clue how she got bad friendship with Don. I don't know what happened with him while she was inactive. I tried to let her use lots of friendly interactions but Don keeps being mean to her. I'm not trying to go for romance with him. She is already engaged with my vampire sim. I just want to get the green bar with Don. I feel uncomfortable whenever she goes into gym as Don always shows up at gym. I want to know how to fix this without mod or cheats. https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-wuo623yByRw/W1XFpp4ZUTI/AAAAAAAAA8A/y14kKGXROI02ldRPnE1wzGzKzIhXZ86sgCLcBGAs/s1600/Screen%2BShot%2B2018-07-23%2Bat%2B13.07.59.png

If you can maybe getting him to cloud or stargaze with your sim, they won't interact that way and he can't be mean to her. That should bring the red down to a level where he won't be so mean, or maybe even push it back into the green.

@Jeansoo The best thing to do no matter what Sim yours has had a falling out with is to let time pass. Eventually, their relationship will revert to neutral and you can start building up the relationship again. Trying to force a friendship between two Sims who despise each other will only make things worse.

No idea what your Sims fitness skill is, but if level 10 you could mentor at the gym, that should return the bar to green. Alternatively phone calls or computer chat, slower but better than face to face if there automatically mean.

@Jeansoo I have no idea if it would work, but maybe having them play chess or cards would be similar to star gazing?Or yeah, just leave them be for a whileAs a side note: Do you get the "Help repair relationship" prompt for any of your interaction options with any sims? (I don't know if that's base game or not)Sometimes I'm shocked at how bad someone's relationship can be with another sim when I've never seen what caused the dislike

"AlwaysAsking;c-16631945" wrote:@Jeansoo I have no idea if it would work, but maybe having them play chess or cards would be similar to star gazing?Or yeah, just leave them be for a whileAs a side note: Do you get the "Help repair relationship" prompt for any of your interaction options with any sims? (I don't know if that's base game or not)Sometimes I'm shocked at how bad someone's relationship can be with another sim when I've never seen what caused the dislike There is an interaction to help two other sims to repair their bad relationship, but it comes with Parenthood game pack.The gift giving from Seasons expansion pack also helps repair bad relationships. Sims accept gifts no matter their relationship, so it will work.The socials like apoligize, beg for forgiveness, try to talk, and find common ground are interactions that help to repair the relationship. It is better than waiting (which takes much longer).

Repairing the friendship with Don

22 Replies

wiccanwonder
8 years ago
If you can maybe getting him to cloud or stargaze with your sim, they won't interact that way and he can't be mean to her. That should bring the red down to a level where he won't be so mean, or maybe even push it back into the green.
aodoherty
Seasoned Ace
8 years ago
"simm621;c-16631352" wrote:
If you can maybe getting him to cloud or stargaze with your sim, they won't interact that way and he can't be mean to her. That should bring the red down to a level where he won't be so mean, or maybe even push it back into the green.

Oh well.. unfortunately, I don't have Retreat game pack. T_T But thanks for the good tip.:)
Nindigo79
Seasoned Ace
8 years ago
@Jeansoo The best thing to do no matter what Sim yours has had a falling out with is to let time pass. Eventually, their relationship will revert to neutral and you can start building up the relationship again. Trying to force a friendship between two Sims who despise each other will only make things worse.
aodoherty
Seasoned Ace
8 years ago
@Nindigo, Thanks. Yes I better let her stop talking to him for a while.
Jordyn78988
8 years ago
If you're not opposed to using cheats, you can cheat their friendship.
https://simsvip.com/sims-4-cheats-codes/#Relationships
loyabe
Rising Ace
8 years ago

No idea what your Sims fitness skill is, but if level 10 you could mentor at the gym, that should return the bar to green. Alternatively phone calls or computer chat, slower but better than face to face if there automatically mean.
ariannaneal
Seasoned Ace
8 years ago
@Jeansoo
I have no idea if it would work, but maybe having them play chess or cards would be similar to star gazing?

Or yeah, just leave them be for a while

As a side note: Do you get the "Help repair relationship" prompt for any of your interaction options with any sims? (I don't know if that's base game or not)

Sometimes I'm shocked at how bad someone's relationship can be with another sim when I've never seen what caused the dislike
EgonVM
Seasoned Ace
8 years ago
"AlwaysAsking;c-16631945" wrote:
@Jeansoo
I have no idea if it would work, but maybe having them play chess or cards would be similar to star gazing?

Or yeah, just leave them be for a while

As a side note: Do you get the "Help repair relationship" prompt for any of your interaction options with any sims? (I don't know if that's base game or not)

Sometimes I'm shocked at how bad someone's relationship can be with another sim when I've never seen what caused the dislike

There is an interaction to help two other sims to repair their bad relationship, but it comes with Parenthood game pack.
The gift giving from Seasons expansion pack also helps repair bad relationships. Sims accept gifts no matter their relationship, so it will work.
The socials like apoligize, beg for forgiveness, try to talk, and find common ground are interactions that help to repair the relationship. It is better than waiting (which takes much longer).
aodoherty
Seasoned Ace
8 years ago
"Plainevil;c-16631760" wrote:

No idea what your Sims fitness skill is, but if level 10 you could mentor at the gym, that should return the bar to green. Alternatively phone calls or computer chat, slower but better than face to face if there automatically mean.

aYes she is level 10 at fitness but the mentor interaction didn't come up while he was exercising. I thought Don's fitness skill was maxed out but I also noticed the mentor interaction came up on him with my vampire male sim who has a good friendship with Don. I found even the mentor is not available with a sim has bad relationship.
aodoherty
Seasoned Ace
8 years ago
@AlwaysAsking, I have never gotten that interaction but it will be the very good tip. I will try to find this today.:) Playing chess will be good as well. I can invite Don to my house and let him chess with my female sim. Thanks. :)