@hadklax perfect sense actually...this sounds like a simple solution targeted to my exact problem thanks a lot
I rarely ever use aspiration rewards as most of them are either the need rewards which distracts from the realism of living or useless potions I dont care to use....normally I want my sims to grow old and die so younger generations can take over, keeps the game fresh for me....I probably never would have thought of this for that reason alone
Thanks again