Serial Romantic

"permanentrose;c-18059215" wrote:
@greydonn I really do appreciate the tip! Right now my sim is up to 6 kisses, all of whom I have also made BFs/GFs for my sim too, but since I have those two extra I just need a kiss for and not a full relationship, kissing hands is definitely gonna be an option I use for those ones haha. I love that the relationships count ahead of time. It would be an especially miserable aspiration if they didn't haha

If the relationships didn't count I don't know what I'd do. :D Good luck! This aspiration is great for drama lol

Start with making a lot of friends first and building up charisma, that will make flirting easier. Then once friends, invite sims over and flirt them, go on dates, etc.....I tend to have most of dates at my sims home unless I want drama, as there is less of a chance of my sims getting caught by another love interest and will just take longer since your sim will be embarrassed and the other angry. I am fine with taking longer and all that personally for storytelling; but sticking to dates at home is the quickest and least painful way. Sims can still come over and see your sim with another; but if you don't give them a house key, you should be alright.

I don't do this aspiration for every sim; but it what worked the best for me when I do use that aspiration.

Hello? Did someone say Serial Romantic?

Well, lucky you. The doctor is in!

Doctor... Who? You might ask?

Well, Doctor Love of course!

(Small disclaimer - not a real MD)

BlueR0se is right with their comment:

"BlueR0se;c-18059216" wrote:
If you have Get Together you could probably use the club system to your benefit (use it to set moods you want to grind up relationship bars in prospective people + grind out the charisma stat). Just make sure that once you start romancing folks to keep them separate/out of the club to avoid jealousy.

Except that it's not 'probably use..' but absolutely use. Seen it, been there, done that. More specifically done half the town. Create a club, from the social options for club activities add: Be Romantic, Kiss, and WooHoo. Then fill up your club with as many sims as you can, start a club gathering, and engage in these club activities. With each of them. At the same location. In the same room even. Because this is a club activity that everyone is totally okay with, you can have a romance orgy/kiss orgy/woohoo orgy with no jealousy (well as long as the club gathering continues - any romantic relationships that will be build up during these gatherings may prompt sims to act romantic with each other outside a gathering as well which will cause drama. Hilarious of course.).

The Free Love Neighborhood Action Plan is also your friend.

Having the alluring trait helps too.

Or, have your sim become a vampire: Vampiric Charm/Vampiric Allure/Vampiric Fascination for the win!

Activating flirty décor objects will ease your targets into becoming more susceptible to your sim's advances.

As for Charisma, you can socialize with other sims, and smooching everyone and their brother(s) is totally charisma enhancing and stuff, but since you mentioned your sim is a loner you could just park them in front of a mirror and have them practice speech ...for a few hours. Or have them sit and read through Charisma volumes 1 to 3 (also for a few hours - who knew being a bookworm scores you charisma points?)