I agree with the loading screens, todlers and the hight adjustments. That's something that could make TS4 more realistic. But, I am a teen in rear life, and I am higher than my dad and mum, so there's no way of telling the hight.
I also like the surname changing you started. unrealistic -_-
About the lots... You can get to those lots only on some occasions, I belive. So, that's unrealistic too. Also, you mentioned beaches. You can't swim in ocean ;(
I never had that stucking bug, but I know there is a cheat to un-stuck your sim.
And those camera controls... Well... I played The Sims 3 a lot before TS4 came out, and I am glad that the creators of the game inplented the TS3 Camera controls. I use it a lot, and I'm happy with that. You can try to use it too ;)
There is a room for improvenment in TS4, and I hope the creators won't leave it blank.
