IDK, the game seems quite neutral to me, you can do almost anything (especially using mods and cc) so I'll have to disagree with the overall opininon. Actually one of my fav streamers has a hilarious sims series, starring a very traditional overly manly man making his way to become a crime lord (and no mods, only no-exit rooms and swimming victims to death). However I agree that all the flirting stuff is kinda awkward, not girly maybe there's something...off?
But then again I don't really care. I came here to drink milk and remove ladders, and I've just finished my milk.