Skills/hobbies missing on Likes and Dislikes

I hope they add some more, especially knitting, chess and (watching movies). I'd like playing card and the other bar games/ table games as well. Not all hobbies has to be strikt skilling in my opinion.

I was disappointed when I realised that If I ask a sim for, say their favourite colour, and I found it out, that the social to ask for favourite colour still stays in the social menu.
It's different from Get to Know that kind of lose it's purpose after you know a sims three traits but it still has a function in the form of whims sims might get for it.
The Ask about favourite colour, hobby etc is useless after your sim knows it and I think they should disappear from the menu, like asking about career.

I also think that if my sims likes playing the violin and they meet someone who also like playing the violin (but this is not known to my sim yet) that if my sim talks about violin (any social with the violin on it) that my sim should automatically learn the other sims hobby is also violin, without me having to ask.

Edit to add:
I'd also really want them to add a hobby catergory in the Club system. That'd be great.