The problem with the game they forget it's meant to be a game !

Yes, I agree with you. The NAPs are the most annoying for me, because they cause NPC's to act inappropriately. Like going into a stranger's house and then making cakes! Surprising, yes, but not very realistic. Or people stealing your grown produce from the garden? How is that fun? I'll admit it might be a challenge, so maybe I'm being hypocritical.