I have a blast with Jungle Adventures so I definitely recommend that first. It's a great pack for catering to different play styles. If you're deviant or like risks or doing challenges, taking Sims into the dangers of the Jungle and/or getting cursed is a lot of fun. If you just want a new vacation destination, it's great to hang around town in Selvadorada and learn the culture skill and new food and dances. If you like to do tasks and collections, the Archaeology skill is really cool and some of the stuff you can dig up is awesome. Plus, the jungle itself is just gorgeous to explore.
For Stuff packs, my favorite (from your list) is Vintage Glamour. I feel like it's a solid pack with some good gameplay items, plus a butler NPC which I use all the time. I personally love the vintage styles too, and I think the whole pack would really compliment the Get Famous expansion.
In second place for Stuff packs, I would say Romantic Garden, but mainly because I just love the Wishing Well and the random chaos it can cause. But the fountain is nice too and if you love to landscape, it's always good to have more flowers and plants. The stonework items are just gorgeous and are some of my favorites to have in parks and mansion yards.