"three is a crowd" thought bubble

Just an fyi, my sims did stop having that thought bubble for the most part. Would happen on occasion though. Really sucks bc I feel deep down they weren't happy. So I broke it off with the second husband and moved him out and made them just be friends. However, they do have some kind of memory I can tell when they get together for family events. I don't want to have them doing a side thing because then he wants to get married and for her to leave her spouse. I mean if both of the guys agree to not get jealous when she has romantic interactions with each of them, it doesn't seem such a stretch for them to be ok with her being married to both of them. They're all best friends and get along superbly and were a great team raising all the kids. And even though they are all separated and the kids are young adults now, they still dote on each other's kids. I would really like to see more put into their memories, wants, loves and such. It would really add a lot to the game. This game has been around for a long time in all of its evolutions and I can only imagine how much EA could make if they actually worked harder to address ongoing issues and wants. I have been working on a whole family dynasty thing and while I said they dote on all of each other's kids, and have some memory of their past love, they also don't. It's annoying. kk I'm done :)