Toddler didn't get needs taken care of while my sim was at work. Now toddler is gone RIP

I’ve noticed this as well the sims on my home lot while I’m at the science center with a different sim take forever to take care of their needs when this had never really been an issue for me before. I have had this problem with sending toddlers to daycare (they come home completely in the red) but not on the home lot before the Get Famous patch. Yeah they’re always a bit slow but they’d never get completely in the red before.