I didn't know what fated mate even was, as I've been exploring the pack without really watching any YouTube videos on the pack etc. My werewolf Sim, flirted twice with a Sim and boom....they were fated mates. & OP I feel you....because I don't want this Sim as his fated mate. I love this pack...but not how fated mates work...all it took was two flirtations and they're bonded? If you figure out how to remove it, please let me know. I do play with MCCC & UI Cheats, but I don't think the creators have added anything just yet for Werewolves since it's so new, but I am definitely looking for a mod to fix this.