What aspiration do you pick the most in sims 4

I always pick knowledge or romance first for bonus trait

then I tend to do romance for soulmate and family aspirations as main and complete other aspirations on side

for wealth you don't really even have to do anything in specific it just completes itself while you do other aspirations

knowledge & creative ones are rather easy side hobby

others i mostly ignore unless im trying to complete everything

especially never bother with popularity ones