I honest disagree with a lot of things. I enjoyed the sims 4. Can some things be improved sure; but to say it horrible had no personality isn't fair either.
Personally I don't watch game changers as they aren't actually doing anything to make changes. If there is a problem you are going have to talk to EA directly. They aren't going to watch all the videos or read everything out there which is clear yet understandable as that would consume so much time that they don't have, so it isn't going to make a difference. Game changers admitted to be given free copies and early access of the game packs and flown to places that most of us will never get to; but can't actually talk to people in EA themselves? Can't report possible issues and bugs before the packs are released to public? What's the point then? Feels more like a popularity content than actually making changes.
The counters look the same to me, no real major difference that I can really notice nor looked bad in my game as it fit in with the rest of the island themed items and looked just like the other one besides the top park as it is an island counter (not like the ballpit or other things people had that was really noticeable and flat. Maybe because I don't have a expensive and fancy computer and equipment as most of use can't afford it I can't see it?), I had sims act random and flirt with both genders on their own. One of my last sims made a flirty introduction to a married woman and she is also a woman, etc..
I feel that the hair and clothing improved a lot, enjoyed most of the packs and game play. The only real issue is that they need to put bugs at a higher priority as some affect game play. As for the style, that is subjective. I lived the more cartoony look that super realistic. Besides it being easier on my computer, it just fits with the sims more in general as the first two games were more random and even daring at times. From what I seen, heard and played.
I really can't see somethings in others perspective as it feels almost like they are playing a different game at times as my experiences had been really different or want more of a Sims 3 and I want more of Sims 2 and possibly 1 (never played but sounded fun).
It seems the problem is that the community wants different things.