"FurSimsOfficial;c-17438253" wrote:
I find something odd about the grandparent - child chances in this game as well. According to the devs logic, Sims in their adult phase are supposed to consider kids, but I think this is WAY too late especially, cause there isn't much to do with the younger stages, so you always just look forward to just get kids asap and start some sort of meaningful family gameplay.
And adult sims just have that older look I don't like. I also do not like the western ideology of having kids when you are 30/40 as it is more healthy to have kids in your 20's.
Anyway, when my sims become kids, their grandparents usually are already dead which is strange as I mostly have kids right away in their YA stage. Something if off.
To be fair, the inclusion of toddlers kinda messed this up. They should have added a few more days onto the young adult and adult life stages when they added toddlers, because as it is now, the parents grow old far too quickly. It would be much more balanced if the grandparents are in their late adult stage when the grandchildren are babies and toddlers, start the elder stage when the grandkids are children, and are at the end of it by the time the grandchildren are teens/young adults.
I agree with you btw, I personally think having kids in real life when you're over 35 is just too old. My parents had me with 30 and 32, which is still young enough, but older than many others. I also know someone whose parents decided ten years after their first child was born to have another one at 40. It's just shitty for the kids to start their 20s while their parents are almost old enough to retire.