I use all of them pretty often. I'd say pick the one with the theme you like the most for now.
I picked Spooky Stuff because I can't go through the Spooky Day without having my sims craft some pumpkins to decorate the house. I just wish the costumes would register in the "costumes" interaction is Seasons. It's beyond annoying to me that it doesn't, but ok. They used to, before Seasons but then idk what happened. Having the recipes for Spooky Day are handy too plus the candy bowl. Kids and teens will get candy from it autonomously as they pass though your house.
But that's from the listed ones.
