Bags on your head and love for all

Is there any way to cancel these two options at letter-box? When I make a petition for cancellation, no one usually signs it for me, not even my own father with whom I have a good relationship or friends. I find it terribly embarrassing how everyone walks with a sack on their heads all the time and everyone flirts with each other, whether married, a woman with a woman, a man with a man, even if they don't know each other.