mod might/might not be messing up my sims's sexual orientation

so i recently got the nsfw version of wonderful whims (idk if anyone here could help w this) for the first time, and when i got into the game, I tried making my male sim flirt with another male sim (in one of my played households) but got his advances rejected. then I tried to modify the orientation again in CAS but nothing changed. (most of my male sims are homosexual btw, but something might've bugged them to be of different sexualities, in which idrk.)

initially I thought it was bcos wonderful whims (despite me manually disabling it thru sims 4 mod manager) could be conflicting with it. I deleted the mod itself, then went back in the game and tried changing again in CAS, yet nothing changed still. then I realised that the saves folder had the wonderful whims folder settings, so just to be safe I deleted that folder and tried the same steps again, but the orientations still get changed after leaving CAS.

eventually I had to manually change the orientations thru lumpinou's sim info manager mod; it was working during the live mode but when I exited and rejoined the game, it still changed, and honestly it stresses me out.

i dont know what else could be making my sims' sexual orientation bugged, because from what i've checked the mod itself is compatible with the 4th November update, and idk what else is conflicting with the mod itself aside from wonderful whims? does anyone else have the same problem?