Neat Freak Sims

I have tried assigning the Neat trait to my sims, but it does nothing, but make my sims uncomfortable. They do nothing about it and I have to tel them to clean. I want my housewife sim to clean the entire house in the morning and at night, but there is no Cleaning Frenzy option showing up anymore. Even my maids just stand around and chat. My slob sims aren't even acting like slobs and clean up after themselves. It's very strange and annoying.

Does anyone know if there is a mod out there that makes a sim clean more often if not all the time, lie the minute something is off they go after it and clean it up? I really wish there were an actual mod for this as I am trying to create a housewife that she keeps her house in order spoils her children...even though there is no option to show the kids are spoiled. I want, at least, this little aspect. :(