Scripted mods

Hello! I downloaded wonderful whims and the childbirth mode from pandasama like 4 months ago and they both were working fine. Now after the latest updates they both stopped working. My game takes hours to load but when I took the scripted mods allowed away the game is much faster. I have done the 50/50 mods update and everything seems to be ok and usually if there's is a problem with the mods it says that there's an error with the wonderful whims mod and it might not work and then I would know its a mod or cc that isn't compatible with it. But I don't get any warnings or anything, it's just not working. I get the birthing pool and such from pandasama and birth control pills etc from wonderful whims but none of the features it had on the phone or anything during childbirth. 

So my question is: is not working because I don't have the scripted mods activated? is there a way to make my game load faster with the scripted mods? because right now it has been loading the game for like two hours. I get to the main page where I select the family etc but after that it just loads and loads until I get bored and close the game to play it without the scripted modes. 

Any help pleas? I love the wonderful whims mod! :( 

TIA