Sim Husband Gone, missing from game
I have been playing my female sim maxing her skills and career.
I couldn't for the life of me get her to woohoo with anyone in her apartment.
So I made another male sim - in his own apartment.
They managed to become romantically involved and did wind up having woohoo at HIS place but not hers.
I came to find that I had locked the door (she's quite famous! 35 million followers, people kept coming in the front door).
I REMOVED the lock, and voila - they were able to have woohoo at HER apartment.
They GOT married, went through the scenario! Had the wedding the arch, food, drinks!
The EVENT ended and then went to HER place and suddenly HE was gone.
ALL his possessions were in her inventory, but he is nowhere to be found.
I have checked 'manage worlds' - looked into 'manage households' - I've looked in the gallery!!!
HE is nowwwwwwwwhere!!
WHEN they get married I THOUGHT the chosen SIM goes to where you select him/her to... then they appear in that house!
I DID that, but NO male sim/husband is present ANYWHERE.
I have rebooted my SYSTEM, and also of course rebooted the game.
ALL features are UP to date, I just did a full check.
Windows 10 is fully up to date!
Graphics and sound are all up to date.
ANY Thoughts?? Please help!! (Am I not looking in the right place??
@prismatikitty Did you exit the game without saving and then re-enter to see if he is still in the game (even if they have to re-do the ceremony)? If that does not work you could try going back to your next most recent save when he was in the game, and backward from there.
You can also check your in-game Library. There should be a copy of his household in your Library from when you created him. Unfortunately that version of him will be at the first created state, unless you saved a later version of him to the Library. Please also keep in mind that any household saved to the Library only preserves the relationships with any other Sims saved with them to the library in the same household. (So... if you place a Sim from your library they will enter the game only with those relationships, skills, etc., intact.)
Once you find him...
- Confirm in Manage Households that he is in your 'Favorite' households (if not click the heart on his household to move him to favorite households). This should protect him from culling.
- You could then merge him into her household in Manage Households. This should make it easy for them to build their relationship. (Once he's merged into her household they should automatically be at 50% friendship.)
- Make sure her doors are unlocked to all household members, not just her.
- Once they get married you shouldn't need to worry about merging households or anything, in case something is acting up for them in this aspect, since they already live together.
If the process is still acting up you may want to check your Mods/CC if you have any. I can provide directions if you need them.
You could also try a game repair, if you like, if this or any other aspects of the game seem to be acting up. Most of the time it's a hail Mary pass, but it can't hurt, and sometimes it helps, depending on the cause:
SpoilerHow to run a game repair:
• Open Origin, click ‘Game Library’ then right-click Sims 4 > Repair Game
• Let it run until it has completed all repairs. It will do the base game first, then run through each of your DLCs (Expansion Packs, Game Packs, Stuff Packs and Kits).
