Sims 4 households won't let me in/load

So. As the title says, it just won't work at all. I try to load into one, it kicks me to map selection right away.

I also have the better expectations mod newest version installed for this, it tabs when it happens sure, but it just keeps going for a while without a report popping up. I do have mods/cc, 50/50 method sounds tedious but if I have to use it then oh well, any ideas?